When it comes to your health most people see it as an all or nothing proposition. Either you work out or you don’t, you eat healthy or you don’t. You take care of yourself or you don’t. There is, for many, no middle ground. There is a start and there is an end. This is what, as a trainer and observer of life…yeah that sounds good, I don’t get.
Life is complicated, life is filled with hard choices…some days the easy choices even seem hard, but when we treat our bodies and our health as all or nothing choice, we make it even more difficult. So are you drowning, floating, or sailing?
Drowning might be the scariest thing in the world, and everyone has experienced at least one instance when they thought it was happening to them. You fight and pull and push and yearn for a chance, and despite all your efforts the more you fight the further down you go and less air you breath in. We have all been here. Those days and weeks where you just can’t catch your breath, where the water continually falls over your face. The scariest thing about drowning is that the we are the ones who are making it worst, not the water. We get scared, we panic, we get turned upside down and can’t tell sky from depths. When we feel we are drowning we have to pause, and all buoyancy to take place. Is that scary? Hell yeah! You have to concede for a moment and stop to allow yourself to evaluate your surroundings and gain your barrings again. You might get flipped, you might give yourself a chance to see the sun, you might pause long enough to feel the water and move through it.
When we feel like we’re drowning, we have to force ourselves to pause and say, “Ok, where the hell am I right now.” Once you take that time to pause, you’ve started to control the situation again instead of letting it control you.

Have you ever just laid in the water, body immersed, mouth, nose and eyes out of the water? It’s peaceful, it’s calm, quiet, it’s surreal. It’s as if the world has disappeared and all you have to do is observe it, take in the sound of the water and watch as the sky change. The tricky thing about floating though, the water takes you where it will, not caring who you are or what you are doing. A current can be powerful or subtle, smooth or rapid, and it can move you into places you never expected or wanted to be. It’s deceiving how you can be moved so quickly and not even notice. This is called, allowing life to happen TO you. When we let life happen and have no input we tend to become the victim. “Well it just happened, I had no control,” first rule in life…never LET yourself become the victim. You can always paddle, swim and control YOU. If you wake up one day and go, “Holy crap fast food has made me fat!” Remember, you allowed yourself to eat it, it didn’t force itself upon you. Don’t be the victim, take charge. Don’t float through life wanting, you always have the chance to kick your legs and create your own current.

The greatest thing about life is your ability to manipulate it and control it when you really want to, when you realize that you have the ability to take control and use the world how you see fit. The difference between sailing and using a man made motor is huge. When you sail you manipulate the elements. You take the wind, the water and you make something happen from those for your benefit. When you use a man made motor, everything is controlled for you…it’s like a tiger. Tiger’s are born with stripes, but you learn the most when you earn your stripes. Sailing is an experience. It takes knowledge, courage, and desire to take the world as it is and make something happen with what is thrown at you.

Become the Sailor in your Life
Drowning and floating are no ways to live your life each day, even though there are millions of people who act like there is no other way. You know who these people are who drown and float. They are always the victim, they are always complaining, making excuses, not taking action. Who wants to live like this? Don’t be the victim, don’t allow life to act upon you…act on your life! “I can’t” is a cop-out, the easy way to play the victim and ask others for help that is not warranted. How can you become a sailor TODAY? How can you take the steps today to use the winds of your life to travel across the seas of fortune and land upon the shores of opportunity? Manipulate the seas in your life to allow you to travel wherever you want! It’s your life, your seas, your wind, your sun soaked horizon, make it what you want! Become a sailor and never let drowning or floating become an option in your life.
5 Ways You Can Become a Sailor
5. Empower Yourself. – Write down on a 3×5 index card what you really want in life and how you can get it. Each morning when you wake up read it aloud before you get in the shower. If you don’t have time to read a 3×5 index card before you shower, you need to get up earlier and go to bed sooner. Think about what you read aloud as you shower and get your morning started. Believe that it will come true and repeat these words in your mind as often as possible.
4. Action. – Take one step each day to get closer to your goal. Plan your week out ahead of time. Know what you are going to do each day to take action and get closer to the end goal. Lay it out there and make sure you do it! You can’t break a promise to yourself, if you don’t honor commitment to yourself, who will honor commitment to you?
3. Mental Workout. – Learn more about your goal and how you can get there. No matter what you want, the more you know about it the more likely you are to accomplish your objective. Do you want to make $100,000 dollars this year at your work? Do you want to lose 10 pounds? What can you learn more about the company and your position, relating positions, current projects, similar projects in others companies, etc., to make the biggest impact you can. To lose 10 pounds, wouldn’t you want to consult with a professional and learn as much as you can about the best way to exercises for you and your objective? Learn as much as possible to stay mentally sharp and make your objective even more important.
2. Sacrifice. – Give something up you want to keep. Whether it’s food, television, alcohol, money, limit yourself of what you can have. A sacrifice will make you more focused during your journey and make it more meaningful when swells make rough waters. You are less likely to give up when you have sacrificed time and effort to get where you are at, make that step on shore even sweater.
1. Crave Challenges. – I have a friend from Sparks, Nevada, Troy Fontana, and he says “pray for problems”. Might sound strange, but we never know what we are capable of unless we are challenged, unless we are able to apply all we know and see how handle the unexpected. How can we ever really excel unless we are faced with opportunities to prove ourselves. It’s all about mindset, but you have to crave the challenges in life so that you can step up to the plate and swing. Even if you missed you still go down swinging and you learn from the experience.
Ian McGriff
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